well after looking a lil bit, i found the oil filter that is longer and fits our cars.
i remember maybe 1 or 2 people had them, but i think it was Jon or somethign and he forgot the part number.
well the oil filter goes to a 4.3L V6 4x4 not the 4x2 (that uses the one we have)
dunno why, but thats what it said, there were 2 different part numbers.
for mobil 1 filter at autozone the number was M1-201 (ours is M1-101)
i changed my oil earlier and it fit perfectly, no problems, i poured some oil in the filter first cause this filter is double the length.
hope that helps