I guess that was what I was thinking of. So does the PCM learn that setting once and keep it, or does it constantly change based on your habits?

how do i say this.....the settings for the transmission in the PCM never change. the PCM reacts differently to every different type of driving. you cant baby it driving at 10% throttle for ever and then one day floor it and expect crisp firm shifts. the PCM will command a firm shift and the tranny will be like wtf im not used to that hold on while i get it right. make sense?