I figured it was maybe froma misfire at first

I've changed the plugs on the motor, that's nearly it though

I'm up on 95,000 now, when i start the car up it seems as if the exhaust give a little "put........... put" now and then

No engine codes, i can't really pinpoint it, I'd want to say clogged cat possibly? not totally certain however, looking for any other input

have you changed you fuel filter or plug wires?

wires still surprisingly seem good, I haven't had any real bad response out of the motor once I move it and they're all still gettin spark, however i supposed it wouldn't hurt to change em out soon.

The fuel filter is next on the list, but I can't really see it causing what almost seems like bad flow?

Are you sure its not just afterfiring??

whats your idle like? is it the normal 750?

your EGR could be clogged maybe? i dunno i could say alot of things.... need to know what your idle is like

idle is steady, cold starts it runs around 1k but drops to a steady 750 after a minute or so of warming up

I'll have to get a video of it sometime, especially warming up it flow fine, then a PUT enough to kick some water out of the piping, does it a few times.