The shifting into reverse and it not catching means your trans is on it's way out
The pulling usually means alignment, bad tie rod, low tire pressure, etc etc, but that's pulling to one side only.
Vibrating under accel could be a broken mount, but being that you said the reverse thing, your going to need a new trans anyway.
Sorry
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